MEDIATION/ARBITRATION | Mediation an Affordable Option that Does Not Require Lawyer By Stanley Zamor | Legacy South Florida Education Issue

If You Want to Fight

If you want to fight, go to court. If you want to bury your opponent in legal fees/cost or be vindicated with a sense of “I put you through the same levels of frustration you showed me,” then go to court, right? However, if you want to find and create solutions that just “get it done” so you can move on and deal with other life circumstances, or if you need to resolve the conflict while repairing some aspect of the relationship, then mediation facilitated by a skilled mediator may be what you need. And you can often do it yourself without a lawyer.

Sword-n-Shield vs Bridge-n-Brick

We have been conditioned to believe that you can only find resolve in court; that the only way to get your legal needs met is when you go to court; and you can only do that if you hire a lawyer.  While you should use and hire a competent lawyer who will vehemently represent you, most cannot afford competent representation. For those who have participated in the court system, they will disagree with these comments and add that after years of waiting, the decision they received rarely satisfied them. 

Justice Jorge Labarga, Florida Supreme Court established a commission who conducted a three-year study regarding “Access to Civil Justice.” In its 2016 results, the commission reported that the unmet civil legal needs of the disadvantaged, low, and moderate-income Floridians are staggeringly high, mainly due to high legal fees. With more than 100,000 members of the Florida Bar, I asked myself, “How is that possible?” 

If You Want to Resolve and Move Beyond

After more than 20 years as a certified mediator (and trainer/coach), I have seen how advocates approach and use mediation the wrong way. Let us be straight and clear, mediation is a process that provides an alternative to the high-cost and uncertainty of court. 

Mediators are ethically bound by statute not to give legal advice (even if they are also an attorney) and can be grieved if they do. It is not a court, yet many try to operate as if it is. When a skilled mediator knows how to address party needs and wants, that mediator can help resolve conflict in a manner that courts can’t, with or without an attorney present. 

A skilled mediator, through conflict resolution techniques, can help transition the discourse while achieving results where the interest or goal is to be done and move past that issue or in many cases maintain a relationship past the dispute. 

Stanley Zamor is a Florida Supreme Court-certified circuit/family/county mediator and primary trainer and qualified arbitrator.  Zamor serves on several federal and state mediation/arbitration rosters and mediates with the ATD (Agree2Disagree) Mediation & Arbitration, PA throughout Florida. As an ADR consultant and coach he regularly lectures about a variety of topics from ethics, cross-cultural issues, diversity, bullying, and family/business relationships.  

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